I dont seek out awards shows, but when theyre on, I get sucked in.
Take the Golden Globes, for instance. I turned them on Sunday evening for the sole purpose of contributing fashion commentary to an online story and ended up watching most of the ceremony.
Even though my husband kept requesting to change the channel.
I just want to see a good award! I protest.
Which means one I agree with. There were two the whole evening. (Kate Winslet for her role in Mildred Pierce and Michelle Williams for My Week with Marilyn, if youre interested.)
But whether or not a movie or TV show or actor or musician that I like wins an award is really irrelevant to whether I continue to enjoy his or her work.
Sure, it would have been nice if Steve Buscemi took home the Best Actor in a TV Drama award on Sunday -- I love Boardwalk Empire and feel he deserved to win -- but the fact that he didnt wont have me scratching the show off my Must Watch list. (P.S. I dont really have one of those.)
But the more awards shows I watch, the more I feel theyre out of touch with reality.
Even the Peoples Choice Awards, ironically.
Sure, theres the tradition. Sure, theres the glamour of having all the rich and powerful celebrities get together to pat each other on the back.
The gowns are gorgeous, the people are gorgeous. But does a film winning a best picture award mean Im supposed to like it better than every other film that year?
If I dont, does that mean Im unsophisticated? Uncultured? Dumb?
I am very aware that the genre of movies I favor -- horror -- is rarely up for top honors (but lets not forget Silence of the Lambs!). And Im OK with that. Because Im also aware that sometimes entertainment is just that and sometimes its meant for a higher purpose.
Its usually pretty hard (though not impossible) to argue that a zombie-killing bloodbath has a higher purpose.
But that certainly doesnt make me enjoy it any less.
Every year after every awards show, this same kind of commentary surfaces.
People have preferences and they think their preferences should dictate the results. Me included.
However, its about accepting the broader notion that just because you dont like something doesnt mean it isnt well-made or have intrinsic worth. Conversely, just because you like something doesnt mean its good.
Ive always liked to use the example of the band Panic! At the Disco to describe my extreme self-awareness: I know its contrived, pseudo-intellectual pop, but damn if their songs arent catchy!











