A local community coalition launched an effort Thursday to spread the word about child sexual abuse in the Columbus community.
The Building Toward Wellness Community Coalition unveiled the plans at a Prevent it Now! Community Awareness breakfast at the Columbus Convention and Trade Center.
The Rev. Johnnie Flakes, III, of the Fourth Street Missionary Baptist Church, said it is time to address a problem that has plagued the community too long. The local collation will hold a local planning meeting 11:30 a.m. today (Friday) at the church on Fifth Street. The public is invited to attend.
“We want to continue to increase the awareness as well as the sensitivity to the tragedies that are happening,” Flakes said. “This is a call to action where we can make a difference and an impact in our community.”
Floretta Thornton-Reid, a coalition board member, said the organization wants to reduce the number of children being abused through a program called Stewards of Our Children. The curriculum was developed by an organization called Darkness to Light.
Thorton-Reid said child sexual abuse has both an emotional and economic effect on the community. About one in 10 children are sexually violated before age 18, she said.
“Based on the 2010 Census, the immediate impact in Columbus is about $1.2 million a year and the long-term economic impact is about $22 million,” she said. “Can you image what we could do in our community if we could prevent child sex abuse and divert these resources to other areas?”
The coalition showed a powerful video featuring men and women who recounted being sexually abused in their childhoods. The abusers were priests, relatives and close family friends.
One victim, Marilyn Van Derbur, was crowned Miss America in 1958. In the video, Van Derbur described being sexually abused by her father from age 5- 18. Her biggest disappointment was that her mother didn’t protect her. Once, when she was about 11-years-old, her mother came home while her father was abusing her. She started to come toward the room, then turned back, Derbur said.
“I heard her going up the steps, up the steps, and I knew then that she would never, ever help me,” she said. “I believe she made a choice and she didn’t choose me.”
Mike Angstadt, executive director of Twin Cedars Youth and Family Services, said sex abuse is a national problem. Next week, his organization will help launch a similar sexual abuse prevention initiative for Troup County. The group will hold a Darkness to Light kick-off and breakfast 7:30 a.m., Oct. 23, at the Del’avant Event Center in Historic Downtown LaGrange. Angstadt said the group plans to train 800 people to help prevent sexual abuse in the community.
Mayor Teresa Tomlinson helped promote the Columbus breakfast, sending out invitations on city stationery. She said sexual abuse dampens the future for many children, which can eventually lead to crime.
“In some instances it sets them on a course that’s irreversible and (creates) a sense of despair that stays with them for the rest of their lives and manifests itself in one way or another,” she said. “So, what a wonderful thing if we could stop the cycle from ever beginning. That’s why we’re here today.”