Why a Georgia mom says she makes her 5-year-old pay ‘rent’
How young were you when you first learned about paying bills? For one Georgia mom, there’s no time like the present.
Essence Evans, an Atlanta mom, sparking conversation across the country after she posted a story on Facebook about why she makes her 5-year-old daughter pay “rent.”
Every week, Evans said, she gives her daughter an allowance of $7. But she explains that “in the real world” most people don’t get to just keep all of that money to spend how they like - they need to pay bills.
So she turns around and tells her daughter to give her back $5 - $1 for water, $1 for rent, $1 for electricity, $1 for cable and $1 for food. Her daughter gets to keep the last $2 to either save or spend.
But Evans said she has a secret. She takes the $5 she gets back from her daughter each week and puts it in a savings account that Evans said she’ll give to her daughter when she turns 18. “So if she decides to move out on her own she will have $3,380 to start off,” Evans said.
“This strategy not only prepares your child for the real world,” she said, “But when they see how much real bills are they will appreciate you for giving them a huge discount!”
Evans’ post has been shared more than 300,000 times since it was posted Sunday, and has sparked a sometimes heated discussion about whether it was a great idea or, perhaps, a little too much for a 5-year-old to grasp.
Hey I make my 3 y/o pay taxes on her fruit snacks. One has to come to Dad first then she gets the rest. “Daddy tax”
— Joe Dawicki (@jfdawicki) January 18, 2018
God Bless! That's a wonderful idea and she is a great mom
— ✨ MissTree ✨ (@MissTree18) January 18, 2018
Great idea, wish I did it with my children when they were young, they wouldn't expect me to continue giving them money now when they run short
— Ron fowler (@rjack9982) January 18, 2018
Is ‘cleaning after herself’ not enough responsibility for a 5yr old? Is it necessary to burden them w concepts that require a certain level of maturity? Can the child decide to move and rent elsewhere? In a way, the lesson being taught is how to remain a compliant hostage!
— p v (@misterptweets) January 18, 2018
And I'd rather have a fun childhood, with playing outside, fun, friends, memories, school, than a measly 3k in a bank account. Not to mention anxiety she'll have about getting a real job to pay for a real apt. How about mom just save the money a different way? Less dreadful.
— Lori (@LoriKnowsLuxury) January 18, 2018
I like that idea....wish i had thought of that idea....but both my kids worked in high school and college, and now have great jobs, proud of them.....both responsible and not living off Mom ❤️ Love my kids.....
— Mona Greer (@kylady717) January 18, 2018
This story was originally published January 19, 2018 at 7:19 AM with the headline "Why a Georgia mom says she makes her 5-year-old pay ‘rent’."